As medical care gets more and more fragmented, it is even more important now to have a Living Will that states what you do and do not want done at the end of your life. Even young people, who are at risk for a sudden accident, need a Living Will. The necessary form can be down loaded from the Internet. One Web site is www.partnershipforcaring.org. Once you have filled out the form and had it notarized, you should give a copy to someone in your family or a close friend who will respect your wishes. Your primary doctor should also have a copy.
In the 2/24/09 New York Times, Jane Brody raises another important point. She notes that you want to be sure your primary doctor agrees with your wishes and will respect them. If a physician is Catholic or has other religious objections to not doing everything possible to keep a patient alive, then you might want to change doctors. I have seen physicians keep people alive who were very old, had no family and were blind, deaf, and on life support. Doctors are trained to save lives not to let patients die.
Your local medical society may also be able to send you a form or tell you were to find one. This is not something to be put off. Please take care of it as soon as possible if you have not already done so.


