Having cared for patients with progressive neuromuscular disorders for many years, I have always been very involved with their end-of-life decisions. As the end of the disease was approaching for each patient, children, teens, or young adults, I have had a discussion with each patient about what he or she would like me to do as time was running out. All of the patients, without exception said " If you can send me home from the hospital in the same condition I was before, that is fine. I don't want any tubes, respirators, or tracheotomies." The other concern most of them had was "Would they have any pain?" Many of these were boys with Duchenne dystrophy and most of them were remarkable patients. Almost all of them had great concerns about their mothers and how they would suffer.
There has been so many lies by individuals such as Sarah Palin and others about "death panels" and "Pulling the plug on Grandma" that I am appalled that more doctors have not spoken up. Part of the job of caring for patients with life-threatening diseases or very elderly patients is helping them make plans for what is ahead. This can be done in a very gentle, caring way and should be part of our job. it is sad that the Democrats felt they needed to add this to a bill for Medicare patients, so the doctors would be paid for their time. I can't imagine a physician being so greedy that he or she would even bill for this time. This is part of our job.
Yes, patients need counseling about end-of-life decisions. Do they have a Living Will and does their family understand what they want done as the end approaches? My children and doctors know that I will haunt them for the rest of their days if I am attached to any respirators, tubes or other life-saving equipment. To me the quality of life is important and if "Pain outweighs pleasure", than there is no quality of life. I certainly have no interest in "Living in the Valley of the Shadow of Death" as someone said they would be glad to accept in a letter to the Editor of the New York Times.


