I have just had a parenting educator as a house guest and was amazed and appalled to have her tell me that she had two pediatricians in her parenting classes. They both told her that they did not receive any parenting instruction or education in their medical or pediatric training. How can this be, I asked her? She also said that the parents who enrolled in her classes told her that their pediatricians did not help them at all with parenting, but just took care of their children's medical problems. That makes me very sad.
I had a classroom built on the back of my office where I held monthly classes. I did not charge the parents for these, but they needed to sign up ahead of time, because the space was limited. The room was always crowded and i think that both the parents and I learned a great deal.
I knew my parents well and felt that teaching parenting was a very important part of my job as a pediatrician. Now "my babies" are having babies of their own and I hear from many of them. Pediatricians are missing some of the real joy of pediatrics if all they do is treat ear infcitions, colic etc. Getting to know your parents and helping them raise their children and keep them safe is to me what pediatrics is all about.
As a medical student and during my pediatric training, I had considerable parenting training. I hope medical educators and those in charge of pediatric training programs will make some changes. It sounds as though pediatricians need to re-think their roles.